Thinking About Kid's Phones

So, just the other day, my son asked when he could get a cell phone. And, of course, I thought "You are 8. Who are you going to call?" And then the answer was clear..."Me." He wants a phone because it is a cool toy that is like his Nintendo DSi. But I want him to have a phone so that I can find him on the playground, or at his friend's house. I want a phone to keep the connection when I can't see him.

It is a big responsibility for a kid...a phone. To know to use it carefully and manage minutes and texts...that is a lot for an 8 year old. But the convenience and security of it are meaningful for me. This is a mobile umbilical cord...not so that he is smothered, but so that he can have his independence (even at 8 that is crucial) and know that he can be responsible and responsive when he is called.

So, that seals it. He gets a phone...at 8. Uggh. That is so young.

So, do we get him a phone on my plan, or does he get his own from a place like Kajeet that specializes in kids cell phones? Do any of you have any experience there?